breakfast special

Mom's Ham and Cheese Souffle (or breakfast for a crowd...)

16 slices of cubed white bread--thin sandwich style bread works best

1 lb. cubed ham, more or less, or you could use bacon

1 lb. grated sharp cheddar cheese

1 1/2 Cup swiss cheese small-cubed (or grated)

6 eggs

3 C milk

1/2 tsp onion salt

1/2 tsp dry mustard

 3 C crushed cornflakes

1/2 C melted marg or butter

Grease a 9 X 13 glass baking dish.  Place 1/2 of the bread crumbs in the dish. Add ham and cheeses and cover with the rest of the bread crumbs.  Mix eggs and spices and pur over bread crumbs. Refrigerate overnight.  Next day combine the cornflakes and butter and put on top.  Bake at 375 for 40 minutes.

Some enjoy this with salsa served on the side. Mom always made this Christmas morning for us after we were adults and bringing our own kids home for Christmas.


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the runner's wife

They had such a deep love for each other. The kind you read about in books. We only met Natalie once, many years ago, but loved the wife our "best man" had chosen. She blossomed him, if you could use the word in that way about a man. They lived across the country and the Gardener visited his old college roommate only once in these years of passing time. But we got to know Natalie through Russ's letters, which he wrote several times a year. He wrote the kind of letters we would sit down and read with a cup of tea, full of wisdom, wit, talk about his students, his running, his family, and most of all, his beloved Natalie. And so  I grew attached to Natalie through his letters and I learned she was a strong, but quiet woman. A teacher well loved, mother to three and most recently a new grandmother.

When Russ wrote a few weeks ago to say his beloved had cancer and chemo was not an option, our hearts sank down low. We read between the lines and prayed. I loved what he wrote, "I'm about as close to God as I've ever been [and] I'm able to be the man the love of my life needs as she deals with the loss of so much of her life and quite possibly her life itself."

So the news came this week that Natalie had rallied and there was hope ... but then suddenly worsened and quickly slipped away, surrounded by Russ, the children, friends, and beloved sweet little granddaughter. I'm sure Russ is taking a run on the beach this week, pondering his loss but not asking why, for he told us he would not. Rather his question was "How can I love the people around me through this ... and live like Christ in this ..." and indeed he will, with great Hope ... and total confidence that his beloved is in the presence of God.

Thinking of our friends makes me want to avoid petty things and live each day fully, and with gratitude.

The Box Tutorial

This is much easier done in person, but we'll give this tutorial a try. Disclaimer: I used 

a card that was too thick so it was difficult to work with and therefore looks

 a little rough. But I didn't want to do this all over with a better one, so here we go. 

Above: supplies for project.  Click on any photo to enlarge.

You need a perfect square and since most cards are rectangular, you will need to make

 it a square. The easiest way for me to do this is to fold it over as you see and then 

cut along the sides of the triangle. You will see the message side of the card I folded a 

little smaller as the bottom of the box needs to be a bit smaller so the lid will fit on it. 

 As you get experienced, you may want to center your square over the design you want, 

but it's always fun to see what ends up being on the top of your box. Sometimes a sweet 

signature turns up on the bottom of the box !

Your two squares should look like the above.

With your ruler, draw straight lines-a big "X" from one corner 

to the other on the wrong side of the squares.

The folding is the key to the success of the card. It's a little difficult and must 

be precise.  Fold two sides into the center of the square as shown above. 

They should meet exactly at the center.

Fold again as shown above, lining up exactly along pencil line. 

After folding is finished, open card flat. 

Repeat with the other corners, as shown. Fold into center once, and then 

again to line up with pencil lines.  Open flat again. 

Your card should look like this. Now take up your scissors.

Cut along folds to the point of the center four squares as shown. Do this ONLY on 

two corners, not all four. (This is very easy, but maybe the hardest part to explain!) 

Start folding up the non-cut corners into a box.

Crisp your folds and hold your box together as you bring the cut 

corners together and tuck them in place. 

A small piece of tape can hold this together well. As you can see mine is not 

perfect as  it was difficult to fold precisely because of its thickness.  

Now start on the bottom of the box.

It's always fun to see what design ends up featured on the box top. These 

are fun for little pieces of jewelry, to hang on a tree, to stack in a little pile, to use as

 little favors at a tea party, or as a craft to teach young girls --- and so many other 

things you creative ones may come up with. I always look at cards

 I receive now and think if they would make good boxes or not! 

If you have questions don't hesitate to ask!

See this earlier post for a much prettier view of these boxes!

outside the boxes

Long ago my sister and I learned how to make cute little boxes out of greeting cards.
A lot of folding, a few snips and a piece of tape to steady things
and you have a sweet little box for ... whatever.
 My sis took it a step further when she stamped/decorated card stock, cut out the needed squares and
made larger boxes. I found these tucked away in a drawer at my mom's as we cleaned out.

They just needed to be photographed and played with! Perfect little gift boxes, already "wrapped."
 I hope to do a tutorial on these soon.

Connecting with other mosaics at Mary's Little Red House. Stop by there to see more.

gone missing

A dozen eggs: missing from my house. I find myself "misplacing" things regularly ... I don't want to dare to guess how much time I've wasted this week looking for lost items. But to lose 12 eggs? That's a bit surreal to me. I don't usually buy eggs at T*r-get, but did the other day for a recipe I was making for a shower brunch. When I went to get them from the frig last night, they weren't there. In fact, I don't actually remember unpacking them from the shopping bags. I checked: All through the frig. The freezer. The cupboards. The trunk of the car. The back seat of the car. The garage. I did not look under the bed, but maybe should have. I retrieved the receipt. Yes, a dozen eggs purchased Feb. 3 at 2:33 pm at the big red dot store.

I remember that as I gathered up my bags and pushed the shopping cart to the lineup at the door of the store, I wondered if the young man lining them up would ever call after someone who had left something in the cart. I don't usually wonder about such things. Did I subconsciously think that because I actually left the eggs in the cart?

Just one of those questions that I'd be best tossing to the wind. And I'm not going to look for the eggs anymore or think about them. Unless I start smelling something.

the keys

Very soon I must turn over the keys to mom's apartment, thus ending a lifetime of       
 "going home." There's a few things left to remove: remnants of my dad's library, an entertainment center and a cabinet waiting to be shipped to my sister. I'm not minding this stalling of completion of this project of emptying mom's home (she is now in assisted living), for I know there will be a huge "something" missing when I hand over the keys and can no longer go to what has been her home the past six years. Dad never lived there, but his memory is everywhere and has been as I sift through photos, papers, letters and much more. Sometimes I have to shake myself to come back to the present.

My cousin suggested that it is much gentler "breaking up" Mom's home while she is still living, than it would be if she were no longer with us. It's not a final good-bye, for Mom is just around the corner in her little room, surrounded by familiar things. It's homey and pretty, just like all her homes have been.  I open the door and she's there, always welcoming me with a smile, and never complaining about all the changes that have recently come her way. Content to be content, that's my mother. (Oh that I'd learn that ...) So I guess I really can still go "home."

Photo: Mom's balcony view. We'll miss it, but we can see it from another porch when the weather gets warmer.

a queen's kitchen

It's funny how things "bother" you.  For years the rusted hinges and grungy hardware on our kitchen cabinets were like a burr under a saddle.  When Eldest Son was putting in granite countertops in our kitchen, we decided this was the time to replace the hardware. The thing that really "sealed the deal" was 1. a small bonus at work to cover the cost, and 2. the Gardener bought himself a small power screwdriver. What a difference it made to an otherwise tedious project.

It dressed the cabinets up so much I'm not even sure they need that coat of paint I was thinking they did.

Before:

After:

I'm keeping this little blackboard painted plate in the kitchen to let Eldest know how

 much we appreciate his gift to us!

I feel a little like a queen working in a kitchen as nice as this, though I'm fairly certain that queens don't cook!
Connecting to Between Naps on the Porch for Metamorphosis Monday

the wedding present

A Pennsylvania cabinet maker's young daughter was about to be married, so the story goes. The year was 1878. The cabinet maker was declining in health but desired to make one more thing, a wedding present for his daughter and her bridegroom. So he worked in his little shop to transform a piece of mahogany into a beautiful oval table for the newlyweds' parlor. He wanted much detail to make the table stand out as one-of-a-kind so he used his lathe to crimp curls and curves, creating quite a showpiece and intricate areas for dusting.

When it came time for the no longer young bride and groom to break up their home, the table went to their daughter who enjoyed using it in her front hall. Upon her death, the table was taken by a son and sadly fell into some mishap or "disrepair." The son knew of his brother's great love for family heirlooms, so as a gift to his brother, he had the table repaired and refinished into a piece of great beauty once again.  One day he visited his brother and gifted him with the refurbished table.  The brother and his wife enjoyed the table so much. Eventually the brother died and his wife moved to a small apartment. Then came time for her to move to assisted living and for her children to "break up" her home.

The latest installment of this slightly embellished story is the most recent move of this parlor table to my house a few weeks ago. It is quickly becoming my favorite piece of furniture, partly because of the story behind it. Yes, that was my great-great-grandfather who made it for my great-grandmother, and then I saw it in my grandmother's front hall everytime I went up or down the stairs, then in my parents home, and finally now in my house. I wonder where it will go next.

Connecting to My Romantic Home for other "Show and Tells."

the story of the silver spoon

Little One and I enjoy having tea together. I have a tiny porcelin tea set I let her play with and she's learned to pour the "tea" (keeping one finger on the lid), dump in "sugar and cream" and take a sip to check the temperature. "It's too hot!" she'll often say with great drama.

So when I saw a little tea set at WM looking a lot like fiestaware I could not resist buying it  thought I'd give it to her at Christmas. She opened it on Christmas Eve and what fun she had pouring, dumping sugar and cream, sipping and serving all of us.

As I watched her play, I got to thinking how sweet it would be if we had a little 

teaspoon on scale to the tea set that she could use to spoon the "sugar" into the 

cups and stir the tea. But where would I find such a thing?

The next morning, with guests around the breakfast table, I was telling about 

a bag of worn out silver cutlery a friend had given me when she moved to Europe. 

A relative had given them to her and they were in need of a good polish. 

I got out the bag and was sifting through them when I saw this:

Apparently little salt servers. I could hardly believe it! Christmas morning, 

just hours after she opened her present of the tea set.

Perfect to scale I might add! And there were two: one to send home with Little One, and a spare.

 Coincidence?

take four

Little One is not so little anymore!

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neighbor bread

I came home pretty tired from a busy day at work. Winter weather is on the horizon, so babies have decided to be born. They were wheeled in the door of the nursery almost non stop. So I was wearily thinking about what to make for supper. We had some left overs. Should I develop them into a major meal (sigh), or turn them into a big pot of soup? "If only I had some good bread to go with it, soup would be the ticket," I said to the Gardener. Went on up to my little office to check email. I figured somehow by the time I finished up, I would know what to do about supper. Just as I turned off the computer, the doorbell rang. It was Danielle [formerly] from across the street, armed with a loaf of cool rise French bread , JUST out of the oven (and some brownies on the side!) She had been baking!

The aroma of warm bread filled the house as I pulled out a pot and began the soup. Hmmm ... just right for a cold night with a storm in the air. Thank you, Lord, and thank you, good neighbor!

First published three years ago this week. See Chari's Happy to Design for more Sunday re-runs.

blog influence

I love reading a blog called In A Garden. There is always something interesting there, 

including a wonderful look out the kitchen window. When I read this recipe for Chicken 

Almond soup yesterday I just had to make it. All the ingredients were on hand. 

It was so delicious. From one side of the country to the other, a recipe "flown to roost." 

Amazing, isn't it?

porch fare

A simple dinner on my sister's porch.

I think she loves her Johnson Brothers Indies pattern now as much as the day 

38 years ago when she registered for it. I know I do.

It looks like it might be tacos tonight.

Sometimes a simple candle or oil lamp is the best centerpiece of all, 

adding soft light and ambience when the sun begins to set.

Her salads are a thing of beauty, and tasty too.

Please see Between Naps on the Porch for more wonderful tablescapes!

at the p.o.

A clump of little silver bells jingles pleasantly every time the door opens. Once I'm inside my senses are met with wonderful scents and soft music. There's not a flourescent light in the place, and the carpet is soft under my feet. I join a short line and look at the four women (and one man) wearing aprons at the counters. I'm at a post office "store" that I discovered in a nearby town. I try to save all my postal business for the days I'm in that town because it is simply delightful there. Seems I often go on a rainy day, and the place is just a whopping dose of coziness.

I watch carefully hoping that when my turn comes it's a woman whose station is free. Seems the women are not just strictly business like the man tends to be. They let me take my time picking out stamps; it's obvious they have the same appreciation of stamp beauty that I do. We may talk about who I'm mailing my package to, the new stamps, or some other chit chat. Last time I was there each woman opened her drawer in search of a cartoon stamp for me to use on my niece's birthday card. Before long they were all laughing and carrying on about it. And the women seem to understand it takes a few seconds to gather things together before leaving the counter.

On the way out, there is a whole counter of resale things, soft chairs to sit on, and a table for kids to play at. Whoever planned this place knew what they were doing.

kin

In the upper left corner is an image of my great grandparents and my great aunt. That is NOT how they dressed; they were on a visit back to their homeland of Holland and were in traditional dress for a photograph--probably a tourist thing. My great grandfather came from Holland as a very young man, with a pocketful of "trinkets" to sell door-to-door as he created a life for himself in the new world.

I've been scanning some old photos lately as I work on a blog of our family history. Such curiosity I have about those in my family who have lived before me.  In these photos you see my great grandparents' house; my grandpa taking a picture of my great aunts (a large age gap between them) and my mother (tallest girl standing with a short brown bob). Also my great-grandfather with his (horse and cart) construction company. How interesting it would be to spend a day ... or two or three ... living with them!

See Little Red House for more interesting mosaics.

aftermath

Amazing here in the south to see snow on the ground for a week! While the main roads are clear, one still needs to drive carefully through neighborhoods as patches of ice still line the street. As I drove home last night, the lights from houses and street lights reflecting on frozen yards was noteworthy. It looked like a sea of skating rinks. Even though our temperatures remain low, the sun is slowly doing its work. It's also a reminder that spring will come. Meanwhile, I, at least, am enjoying this "real" winter!

compromise

There is such a feeling of newness or renewal as the new year dawns and the holidays fade away. For us it's been good to move things around a bit as we transition some of my mother's things into our home (she has moved to assisted living.) We fit her pieces in as we move others around ... a sort of "shopping the house." (I found myself shopping the house a bit with my Christmas gifts this year, finding objects meaningful to me that would also be pleasing to friends I know well--it was a lot of fun!) For sure our attic is stuffed fuller than it was as we put some things aside for later decisions. And it feels, just a bit, like a new house. It seems like home more than ever. I find myself wondering if that's due to the familiar furniture from my youth now gracing our home, or if it's just because it is ... home !

Photo: We moved this mirror and my favorite old wobbly chest to the upstairs hallway. The mirror is hanging higher than I would have chosen, but the Gardener did the hanging and he believes mirrors are to be looked into. With a foot difference in our heights we compromised. I'll see the top part of my head, and he'll see the lower part of his!

bread and milk

It's a standard joke here in the south that everyone flocks to the store for bread and milk when any mention of snow is made by weather people. I heard recently that double amounts of bread and milk are now delivered when a storm is imminent. Maybe that's why when we went to the store on the eve of the storm, there seemed to be plenty of both. I remember in the past the shelves would be empty. We've been "low-carbing" it for months now, but for some reason we found ourselves at the grocery looking for oatmeal bread. Comfort food I guess, and we enjoyed french toast for breakfast.
 I haven't made that in years.

The "icing on the cake" is that our beautiful snow now has been glazed over with a coat of ice. No school tomorrow again, and with our cold temperatures hanging around, it will be awhile until it melts. Here in the south snowplows are strangers to side streets. We wait for the thaw.
We may be in for a day or two more. Not complaining.

golden locks

Over the holidays we had five little girl cousins under one roof. I discovered I had these 

pictures of the back of their heads (four of the five) showing their cute hairdos.  

Number five, the littlest (four months old), was most likely napping.

Connecting to Mary's Little Red House's Monday Mosaics.

generation after generation

I wish I could have expressed this as well as Helen Thames Raley does:  "Deep are these roots, inescapable, restorative. I thought about how life had gone on, generation after generation. Perhaps the past is really never gone, but always a part of the present. Lingering here in the quietness, 

I gather up the people, the places, the little fragments of another time."  

Photo: My grandparents, aged 22,  with their first baby. See the water pump, the washing machine, 

and other evidence of living around them? How I would love to spend a day 

with my grandmother as a young mother!

Reposting this from January two years ago. Connecting to Chari's Sunday Favorites at Happy to Design

angels in a black jeep

     The January "snow storm of the century" took us all by surprise. The Gardener was oblivious to it all, traveling on the other side of the world. As I spent a cold evening alone and without electricity, I wrote letters by candlelight, frequently peering out the window at the fairyland of white and ice. I felt like I was in a scene from Dr. Zhivago. The stillness was profound, interrupted only by the wind and a fairly regular snap, crackle, and thud.

     I had such a feeling of helplessness, knowing the trees would fall where they would. But I also was filled with a wonderful peace. It helps me to visualize things in my prayers, and as I prayed for protection, I could almost see a band of angels swarming around my house, shooing away the falling trees.
     My sleep that night was interrupted only by the really loud thuds. As long as the house didn't shake I felt OK staying in my warm bed. The next morning was welcome after a strangely serene, yet terrifying night. Sunlight does one a world of good, and the day was bright with the glistening snow.
     I surveyed the mess. Trees, limbs, branches ... everywhere ... like a white Hugo (a hurricane our city survived years ago). My neighbor was nice about our tree sprawled across his yard. "When my husband gets back we'll take care of it," I assured him. He offered his help as well. But I was disheartened thinking of all my weary husband would face after his long journey. I told God my concerns, trying to let peace win over my helpless feelings as I looked at all there was to be cleaned up.
     That afternoon a black jeep suddenly appeared in our driveway. Two young men climbed out armed with a power saw. They offered to cut up the fallen tree and stack it neatly at the curb. After we dickered on a fair price. I proceeded to watch, astounded, as these energetic young guys made short work of the fallen tree. They came and were gone in less than a half-hour.
     What made these guys drive down to my cul-de-sac at the far edge of a neighborhood? I had a strong sense that God had heard my concerns and sent them just for me. I know God cares for us, protects us, and always has our best interest in mind, but it is "so cool" when He gives us such an obvious demonstration! He sent me two "angels" in a black jeep on a cold, snowy day.

Written about a snow storm a few years ago ... 

things that go bump in the day

"Szzzzz ...."  I remember the story our friends told. They were living in Kenya and one night they woke to the sound of "szzz." They were sure it was one of those big snakes ... but the room was dark. There was great suspense mingled with some fear as they grabbed a stick, or maybe it was a flashlight, and began their search. They had us on the edge of our seats listening to the tale. Eventually they found their snake --- it was a spray can gone awry.

I thought of this story yesterday when I heard a new rattle in the car as I headed out to do some errands. It sounded very tinny--as if a small piece of metal had come loose. At the first stop I got out and checked the hubcap on the side where I heard the noise, and then looked in the trunk and back seat. All was well. It seemed even worse when I started to drive again. I called the Gardener, "Have you heard any new sounds in the car?" as I described the noise to him. (Of course he hadn't -- in our house I am always the one to hear the noise first). I slowed down, braked, started, braked. The sound seemed even more intense and closeby. WHAT was falling apart? I turned towards the passenger side of the car where the rattling seemed loudest.

What  to my wondering eyes did appear but a metal serving piece I was delivering to a friend, sitting on the passenger seat right beside me. I laughed aloud at my "dit-zi-ness" and just had to call the Gardener to tell him my foolishness. He sighed.

Photo: the culprit doing what it was meant to do.