These are the people who complete me and explain me in many ways.
They are intimate strangers . . . I know them by the whispers of
heredity . . . quirks of instinct, rumors of shared wounds. There is,
at the roots, a deep-down entanglement. There is a shared cache of
private folklore that shapes us. -- Mark Buchanan, The Rest of God
I thought about this quote last weekend as I sat in the midst of intimate strangers.
Second cousins that I faintly knew existed but had never met. We come from a
large family: our grandparents were six brothers and two sisters. Our parents, first cousins,
were all close growing up. But then they scattered to all parts of the world.
We gathered to celebrate the life of an aunt, and for me a first-cousin-in-law-once-removed
who was like an aunt to me. It was fascinating seeing family resemblances,
and those little "quirks of instinct." What felt even stranger was their sharing
in the same old stories that I love.
Our parents well instilled in us a deep love for our heritage.
Ours is a strong story that has impacted our lives.
Will it be the same for our children, is a question.
At the service we sang the Hallelujah Chorus.
Anyone who had ever sung it in the past came up to be the choir.
It was a joyous moment in time I won't forget.