
Friday, February 27, 2009
look inside again

Thursday, February 26, 2009
a few random thoughts

I'm going to see my sister, among others, today. When I travel I always make sure to bring a journal along, not only for the experiences or thoughts I want to jot down, but it seems there are always new things to learn when you go somewhere outside your own neighborhood. So I'm tucking in this journal that my sister gave me. She may have a new recipe, her friend may have read a good book, there may be a new craft to note, or ... I just may want to write about ... anything! For a writer, security is having pen and paper always nearby.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
many comments
From my tea calendar: "In the 1940s Ruth Bigelow began pursuing the perfect cup of tea. She found an old colonial recipe using orange peels and spices, and in her New York kitchen she created a tea that generated "constant comments." She named her signature tea, "Constant Comment."
Who knew that? I'm not sure I ever really wondered before about the name of that tea which is not my favorite, by the way, but the Gardener is drinking it these days.
Monday, February 23, 2009
365 notes
"Another novelty is the tea party, an extraordinary meal in that, being offered to persons that have already dined well, it supposes neither appetite nor thirst, and has no object but distraction, no basis but delicate enjoyment." (Jean A. Brillat-Savarin)
Friday, February 20, 2009
casting cares

Sometimes I feel like it's a big tug of war, this casting our cares on our Heavenly Father. Especially the big burdens. I cast them at His feet in submission, and before you know it, I've got them back in my hands, doing a great job in the anxiety or worry department. What is it about trust, that it can't totally be ours (or at least mine) long term? How thankful I am that as a child I learned the story deep into my heart. Now if I could only live it all the time, like a childlike faith, believing.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
taking tea together

"Somehow, taking tea together encourages an atmosphere of intimacy when you slip off the timepiece in your mind and cast your fate to a delight of tasty tea, tiny foods, and thoughtful conversation." (Gail Greco)
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
HAPPY 50th, a milestone birthday, to my contemplative joy friend. Kindred blogging spirits! We've never met, but have virtually shared book clubs, ideas, thoughts, and would enjoy sitting down for a cuppa together, I know.
Monday, February 16, 2009
my two front teeth
We enjoyed a visit with Little One and her parents this past weekend. Nothing like having a dentist for a daddy and getting your teeth brushed well every night. I guess the gums were in on the job too, as she only has her two front bottom teeth and he brushed everywhere in her mouth. Looked like Little One enjoyed the process. Such a good baby!
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Friday, February 13, 2009
blog-vines

Thursday, February 12, 2009
hearts on the table
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
wrong number

"I'm sorry I think you have the wrong number." The Gardener was in my office when the call came. The connection wasn't good. "Do you think you didn't hear right and she was saying your name?" I could see that possibility so I called the number back while heading outside for a better connection. "Who is this?" I asked (a bit rudely I admit).
"Is this (podso)?" My cousin's voice became clear. "I was sitting here wondering who I had called by mistake. Your voice sounded familiar. Let's talk now that we're connected." We laughed.
It'd been quite awhile since we've talked together. We had a segment of time when we were in close connection--when our parents lived in the same retirement community. Keeping in touch is still important to us, so we were glad that we connected. Just a serendipity in the middle of a mundane day: a wrong number turned right.
P.S. Happy Birthday, Barb!!!
Monday, February 09, 2009
slippin' and slidin'


On our way down, Debbie decided to take a short cut, down a slippery bank that didn't have rock ledges to ground her feet, branches to grab, or trees to hug on the way down. I took a look. Hmmm ... I may be too old for such nonsense, but I couldn't let her go it alone. Slippery it was, especially without proper hiking shoes. Precious little to cling to or wedge our feet on. We got to laughing, especially with the positions we found ourselves in. Got to almost a PIYP kind of laughing, as we struggled to make our way down and arrive in some decent order.
Friend Debbie has what I call an infectious laugh. It doesn't matter if you know what the funny thing is, if you're in the same room and hear her laugh, you join in. (When we're with her we always have a good, laughing time, and come away feeling so refreshed.) So there

we were, two women well over 25, slipping and sliding down the side of a mountain. (The men were taking the long path.)
When we got to the bottom a young woman, who had been sitting there watching our escapade, greeted us, "You were sure having fun!" Yah, but glad to have both feet firmly on the ground again!
Friday, February 06, 2009
from the mouth of little ones

Photo: my father's favorite chair sitting by my mother's view
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Remnants
Tuesday, February 03, 2009
Assault At the Mall

Even the days I "dress" just to go to this mall, I feel like the salespeople (who can't be any higher economically than I am) look right through my middle class "dress" and know I don't really belong there, and treat me so. It's an odd feeling.
I sense a big disorientation there now, like a feeling of being lost. I have to "let go" the desire to figure out where I am. "Let's see, is this where Sears use to be?" "What about the old food court? I'm sure it was near these four pillars." Let the old mall go ... to be what it wants to be. After all, most everything else in life seems to be changing (rapidly, by the way).
So there I was the other day, venturing forth between two "flagship" department stores. I can't even remember what I was looking for, but of course I didn't find it. On my way back to the original store, through which I hoped to make a fast exit to my car, I passed by some of those small, sometimes irritating kiosks. At one, as I tried to glide by quickly, a young woman approached me with a miniature dollop of hand cream in a small cup. "Please you need to try this ..." as she forced it, yes, forced it into my hand. I kept moving, but not fast enough to miss hearing, "Are those your nails? Oh my G___." I felt assaulted as I kept moving, and she kept talking. I'm sure this young thing didn't get that good a look at my unpolished but trim nails (and by the way, if they weren't mine, who else's would they be?)
Watch your step, dear, I thought to myself. I immediately mentally defended my, yes, aging hands with their signs of bygone glorious days in the sun. After all, these hands, along with their nails, are practical hands.
They scrub pots, wash dishes, rake leaves, mow the lawn, cook meals, type on the computer, crochet blankets, write letters, change 20 baby diapers in a day, foam in and out of countless hospital rooms--and, more. (My guess is that the most her hands get roughed up is by punching her calculator or texting on her phone.)
Increasing twinges of arthritis make my hands even more endearing to me. They are what they are, so please don't attack how they, or their nails, look.
Photos: my mother's beautiful, caring hands on the right, and my busy hands on the left. Above: my shadow last spring, pausing at this sign, probably wondering what there is to watch out for.
Sunday, February 01, 2009
25 cent deed


"Just take my cart," she spoke softly, smiling into my eyes, "I insist. Happy Birthday or something." Such a small 25 cent thing, but so huge in the way it blessed me and made me smile. After shopping I headed again to the line of carts, thinking I'd be making 25 cents that morning, when I saw an older woman about to begin her shopping. I headed toward her, offering my cart, as she tried to hand me a quarter.
It sort of reminded me of the movie Pay It Forward. On a very small scale. And I was able to do a good deed, though it cost me nothing.
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