Tuesday, January 24, 2017

a lost art

     I was reminded recently of the impact a simple note can make. 
Several years ago I wrote to a family I did not know well, to encourage 
them about something sad we had in common. I never heard from them, 
nor saw them again. But because of what we share in common, 
I often think of them and wonder if they ever received the note.

     But one day, the father of the family sought us out at church. 
We didn't even know if they were still at our church. He remembered that 
note all these years later, and had been wanting to thank us, and to let 
us know how much it had meant to them that I had written it. 

     Lesson to be learned: no feedback means nothing. Just do what 
you know you are to do, and let it go from there. 
God does His work, using your little part.

     Yesterday was National Handwriting Day. It seems a handwritten letter 
or note is almost a lost art. Do you still write handwritten things? 
My hair stylist told me that her daughter's biggest thing about getting 
her driver's license was doing her signature correctly. Not parallel parking. 
In fact, she begged her mom to teach her cursive so she could 
do a proper signature. No, they hadn't taught it in school.

19 comments:

  1. I've always loved to write letters and send pretty cards. But I had to have a little talk with myself lately. I got a lot fewer birthday cards this year even though I still send them to 'everyone'. And then yesterday I got a late card from my youngest son with a handwritten note...a nice long one and it lifted my spirits. I know I shouldn't 'expect' from others but it's hard not to, isn't it? Thanks for this beautiful reminder! Hugs, Diane

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  2. I recently wrote a birthday letter in cursive to my grandsons now 11 and 10. I purposely wrote in cursive and made it easy and straightforward. They were not impressed. It used to be fun in second grade when our teacher would write in cursive proving to us that we could read cursive all in preparation for our learning to write cursive ourselves the next year. Alas, another skill bites the dust.

    Now, truth to tell, a printed note is still special, though a handwritten one is wonderful. Glad that you finally learned how much your note was appreciated.

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  3. I must admit I do not write as many letters. My handwriting is a little more shaky than I like and feel it doesn't look its best. I really shouldn't let that keep me from still practicing. Our younger grands can not read cursive and that makes me sad. I love that your friend let you know how much your letter meant to his family. ♥

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  4. It was so nice to hear about your experience. I think sometimes some people don't know what to say, or are too upset to respond like we think they should. As a teacher, I hear from students long after they have graduated, and they will mention something I wrote in their yearbook, or a note I wrote them when their life was not going how they wanted. Never underestimate the power of words. Thanks.

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  5. I've been trying to write a handwritten letter or note more often. I love to get personal mail, and so I am wanting to send personal mail to others! I like decorating the envelope and making it all pretty!

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  6. This is really a touching story. You are right...you never knew if that note was received or not...but it was so good for you. I love to send notes, also. I bought some blank cards the other day and I'm hoping to learn calligraphy. I know---a note is a note, but still, something pretty is always good!

    Thanks always for your blog visits!

    Jane x

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  7. How lovely and what a good reminder to us all. I didn't know it was handwriting day, I might have written a letter if I had known as I have some waiting to be written. Happy writing!

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  8. Dotsie, you must be the conduit for a message I needed. I've had one of my golf friends on my mind so much lately... and have thought I should just sit and send her a card of encouragement and to let her know I think of her and keep her in my prayers. I need to JUST DO IT. Thank you, sweet friend. blessings and hugs ~ tanna

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  9. Oh I enjoyed this and yes I agree. Hand written is quickly becoming a lost art, and it is such a shame. I do occasionally still do it. But I am encouraged by reading and thinking about your thoughts on not worrying about rather or not our gestures are received or appreciated. I have a few recently that I wonder if they are falling on "deaf" ears. But your right, if I feel God is prompting me to do so, I will, and let Him do His work, and not worry about my little part. Have a good day!

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  10. I regularly send cards and also a thank you note when the occasion calls for it. It really is a dying art and I'm sure you've thought about all the things we'll lose in the future if the grid were to collapse. My recipes are now on my iPad and I keep thinking I should write them out and keep in my old file but will anyone in the family be interested, or in the future even be able to read them?

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  11. I love to write notes and letters, and to receive them too.
    Maybe we should do another handwritten letter swap?

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    1. Sounds good!

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    2. I've made a suggestion on my blog, but sadly can't take it on myself at the moment.

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  12. They no longer teach cursive?! I admit, I'd rather type out a letter and send it via e-mail so that it gets there faster (plus it doesn't cost extra). Or even if I send it through the mail I prefer to type it so that I have a copy of what I wrote. I keep folders on my computer of all the mail I send and receivewd. It's not the same, to be sure, as reading old letters from long ago, though. I save those, too.

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  13. I love this post. I write notes often = sometimes just short ones - but try to do it as often as I can....usually in thanks to someone's kindness.

    I totally lost my mind when I found out a few years ago that children are no longer taught Cursive writing or handwriting at ALL. Isn't it something they shall not be able to read their grandfather and grandmother's love notes? God forbid they won't know any old fonts such as Jane Austin, etc.

    I think I will teach my granddaughter how to do so. I think it is important. We've actually been thinking she may be homeschooled - so we know she gets a good education - or we all will have to pitch in to her private education - and that is sooooooooooooo costly. We shall see how it ends up- time will tell. I am happy that we have a few more years before we get panicky.

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  14. I teach 13-15 year olds and they come into the classroom not knowing how to read cursive. But I often write in cursive on the board and they soon figure it out. It doesn't take long. Being able to write in cursive - now that's another thing! Handwriting is so personal. I love receiving hand addressed mail in a familiar hand - it's a connection over the miles.

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  15. How wonderful to find out that even years later your card meant so much that they still remembered it! That is amazing! What a gift and treasure a thoughtful note can be. I like your thoughts about handwriting, and find it so sad that kids today can't write or read handwritten notes! I have had kids at birthday parties not be able to read the greeting (I make my own cards, and all inside is handwritten) and have to ask for help to decipher it! So sad. My kids were taught handwriting in school, but I think it is a tragedy that the art of handwriting is being lost.

    Growing up I had several penpals around the world, and it was so exciting to get the mail from them. I've since lost touch with them because life gets so busy, and a couple of them moved and didn't send me their forwarding addresses. I really think that blogging is a bit like penpals, keeping up with friends you may never meet, and yet knowing intimate details of their life. Blogging has brought so much joy into my life, with precious ladies I've met.

    Enjoyed your post today :)

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  16. This is such a good and timely lesson for me. All too often, I am negligent about writing to someone when the situation calls for it. I will keep this in mind from now on when I get that impulse! Yes, blogging friends ARE like penpals... I only ever had one penpal and sadly lost touch with her through the years. And even though I took a hiatus from blogging in recent years, I was so happy at the end of last year to reconnect with many of my blog friends... such a special community. And I am so thankful to have now connected with a new friend... you! :) Blessings!

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