We live in a city where appearance seems to be very important.
People show their money by how they live. Moving "up" happens
a lot, and updating or remodeling homes, upgrading furniture,
and the latest decor designs seem to have high value.
It's easy to fall into that mindset. Our house does not have an "open plan."
(I rather like all the separate areas.) So should we tear down a wall to
make the house more sellable? (no, we won't, but those thoughts do come.)
Comfort, coziness and family heirlooms/history are high on my house values.
We stay with the old, the things we love, but the update question tempts us
because of the "brainwashing" we get from things like home
improvement shows, blogs, or magazines filled with sparkling homes ...
I have to admit, I feel a sense of relief and comfort when I see homes of my peers that
aren't updated, that are filled with furniture from when they began "housekeeping,"
or beloved antiques or consignment purchases that are sturdy and speak
of being loved and used. They may cook on an old but perfectly functioning
stove, turn on, not tap on, their kitchen faucet, and seem happy and content
to be what they are.
It's something I ponder on occasion.
And then Eldest Son brings along a scrap piece of gorgeous granite.
What can we say? What can we do? In the artful act of balance,
a little updating comes our way.