Saturday, October 24, 2015

will it make a difference?

I've been known to worry a time or two. And maybe (lots) more. 
Even though I know it is an absolute waste of time and emotional energy. 
It accomplishes nothing good.

I went with the Gardener to see B*idge of Spies yesterday. 
I had read how good it is so I expected to enjoy it but was surprised at how much I liked it.
I got a lot out of the film on several layers.
It was just that kind of a movie. The kind that sticks with you.
It was artsy, beautifully filmed, superb details, and so 1950s that I see "black and white"
as I remember the movie. (I had to look at a preview to be sure it actually was in color!)

It was based on the true story of a Soviet spy on trial in the US. 
There was so much in it that I recognized from my idyllic childhood during the 50s.
From pink and blue bathrooms to big hats (as seen on my dad in photo above)
 to school air raid drills and fear of the atomic bomb 
we children thought of as we fell asleep at night.

(I'm not spoiling it by telling the story here; 
just some side things I took note of and appreciated.)

As to worry? 
That subject seemed a repeated theme as the lawyer 
(an actor we all love)
kept asking the spy if he was worried or afraid.

"Will it make a difference?" the spy would reply, 
or something similar to that, each time he was asked.
We all probably have a thing or two we could worry about; 
right now I've got something looming on my mind. 
This is a good reminder.
Worry does not make a difference.



22 comments:

  1. You're so right, Dotson. Worry solves nothing, accomplishes nothing, changes nothing. My Mum always said that worry signified a lack of faith. I'm guilty of this but continue to try to give it up and leave things to God.
    The movie? I look forward to seeing it.
    You family photos are precious!

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    1. Dotsie! !!!!
      I am in a constant battle with auto correct!

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  2. We hope to see the movie as well Dotsie for the write-ups are good and now with your comments, I know it is something I'll like. We had a discussion on worry at the ladies morning bible study I belong to last week as one friend is struggling with family issues...and worry. We've convinced her to take one day at a time and as Honora said above - nothing is solved, accomplished or changed from this state of mind. That being said, we all let worry consume our thoughts now and then don't we?

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  3. Dotsie, such good food for thought here today! We don't go to movies very much, but this might be an exception. Have a great weekend. ♥
    P.S. I love the photo! So sweet.

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  4. So timely for me now, Dotsie!! I am sitting here in the hospital with Ron who has had a bad day. Worry will not make a difference. So very thankful to know the One who is in control of it all!

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  5. I think worries are certainly a lack of faith, as I always just leave things to God, if I can't control them or make it better. Yes, worry will not make a difference! The movie sounds great.
    Hope all your little cuties are doing well.
    Hugs,
    FABBY

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  6. Worry is something I've struggled with for years. It never made any difference at all. I think I worry less now than I did. Leaving it with God who knows all is the best way to deal with it. The movie sounds interesting. I've not heard of it.

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  7. Good to know you liked the movie! Worry is one of my besetting sins. :(

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  8. I'm a born worrier. But I'm sure I will see this when it comes to Netflix (hearing impaired--no movie theater for me).

    Jane x

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  9. You're right! Worry does not make one bit of difference. Why oh why won't we learn?? I love the 'vintage' photos. My father wore a grey stetson hat too...like the actor in the old TV show "Car 54". Brings a smile to my face. The movie does look interesting even though we never go to movies but, either buy them on DVD or watch them on Netflix when they are released. We'll watch for this one. Have a great week!

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  10. I, too, was wondering about this movie. Will have to see it one way or another. Thanks for the "review" even though that was not your primary point. So good to see you last week, and glad you made it home safely. I hope the rest of your week here was a great visit!

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  11. You know I worry, too. Often Mom would say it is a waste of time when the here an now is more important. Did seem to make any difference until I've gotten older. I just keep saying, "Be not afraid." and try to do the best I can with what I've got! Thanks be to God! After your wonderful critique I think I will have to see it! Thank you!

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  12. How strong is the inclination to worry. Guess that is why there are so many times God tells us not too. I appreciate your thoughts on the movie!

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  13. Oh yes, I too am one of those who struggles with worry. We saw The Age of Adaline this weekend. Oh my, l loved that one!

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  14. We have that film on our to-see list for sure. That actor-whom-shall-remain-nameless is indeed in great movies. He can be choosey, and he seems to always nail it on the better ones.

    As for worry- nope. I don't worry - well a little bit about not having a thick enough retirement plan (haha) but not about the little things. Maybe it is because I lost my mom when she was too young, and my father 6 years after that, and my best friend, and my first husband................I think I learned early on that LIFE IS SHORT, and sweatin all the little things takes away one's joy of life - and that is distinctly against God's plans for us to be filled with joy.

    Love that pic of you when little. You haven't changed a bit. You look the same, only taller now.

    God bless. Hugs. ♥♥♥

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  15. That movie sounds interesting.

    I am not a worrier by nature but I do have concerns at times. Your message is a good one!

    Thanks!
    Deanna

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  16. I remember getting under my desk during the drills, but I don't remember being particularly afraid. I've gotten much better at not worrying as I've gotten older. It's been a relief!

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  17. Podso,
    All~righty, now I r e a l l y want to go see this movie, dear friend!!
    Thank you for all the reminders of life in the 50's!!!
    I do think that our School Days had much to contribute to how we approach life today.
    Fondly,
    Pat

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  18. Wonderful post with a great message! So true that worrying really doesn't accomplish anything, and it is far better to enjoy the moment, without carrying the baggage of tomorrow's unknowns into today. Enjoyed your post, and hope you are having a blessed and lovely day :)

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  19. They couldn't have chosen anyone better than Mark Rylance to play that part. And he delivers that line SO well! I loved the movie. Have you seen Mark Rylance as Thomas Cromwell in 'Wolf Hall' that was on PBS? Definitely the kind of thing we like. Anyway, so right about worry. Changes nothing, except probably us. Blessings on your day.

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  20. I have seen the previews and this movie does look good. I also like movies from that time period...there are times I wish I could go jump right in to those black and white photos of days gone by! I love the visual that Joyce Meyer uses to describe worry...she has a rocking chair on the stage and goes and sits and rocks, representing worry. She say you can sit and rock all day 'til the cows come home and you see it hasn't gotten you anywhere...just like worrying! It is easier said than done though, right? Now I really want to go see this movie!

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